Certified psychologist Kati Morton asks us to consider if we are the problem in this video

 It's easy to point the finger at someone else's behaviour, but it often times may be better to turn that finger around and look at what we may be doing that is hurting our relationships. We may look at see repeat unhealthy relationship or friendship patterns in our life, or perhaps we often blame our friends or parents or family for everything wrong in our life. Or we may blame society or other factors in our life. The truth is, there is often two people at fault in conflict or unhealthy relationships (not in all cases, but often times). Or we often may have some fault in things. We may find ourselves a co-dependent in our relationships or friendship or find that we struggle with co-dependency in all of our relationships. Or we may find ourself stuck in unhappy situations without making the changes we need to move forward. And then we may see that our friendships or relationships are consistently unhealthy - and when I say relationship I mean our work colleagues or our mother or our father or our siblings, not just romantic partners. We may find that negativity or negative patterns follow us in all of our relationships - so let's dive into the 6 signs that YOU might be the problem in your relationships and friendships.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R1lpdSoLLaE